Reader Letters: Positive Thinking
POSITIVE THINKINGThanks to Maria Vinogradova for the letter in the December issue - I am ready to subscribe to every word.
No need to live in the past, you need to learn how to turn pages! Life is so long, such a difficult thing! And everyone has ups, downs ... The main thing is how you feel about this.
My ex-husband was often dissatisfied with my attitude to the problems: “You are forever with your“ everything will be fine! ” How else?! Well, we were born in the 70s ... We went to school, went to institutes, distributed to the factory. And according to the scenario planned for many years to come, they should retire from the same plant in 40 years. But what happened in Russia was Mikhail Gorbachev! I had to rebuild my brains, change everything that was taught before ... Of course, I remember my past. How to forget him? And why forget it? But life goes on! There is more than one entry in my work book, like my mother’s ... There are many entries. And very good, I must say! And now in my life is another transitional period ... Maria Vinogradova wrote that she was forty years old this year ... And I was forty-seven years old. And this is also a revaluation time. Worked a lot and productively. But - on others. And recently it has become unnecessary. There was a time to relax, look back, think about the future ... And now I am on the verge of starting my own company. Of course, while this business is far from the scale that I used to run! But this is my company!
For the best letter, Elena receives body milk, gommage and Lait Corporel shower gel from Biotherm.
I read somewhere that positive thinking is a departure from the problem. I do not agree! The easiest way to whine and complain. And what will change? Better to smile and tear your beautiful ass off the couch! And to do an act that is a step, but brings closer to a new state! Yes, six months ago I had a lot more money. I had a huge team subordinate, I was the center around which everything revolved ... Yes, it was. But, if you focus on the fact that now partially this is not possible, you can fall into such a depression! What for?
I am forty-seven. Lot? Yes, I will not dissemble, a lot! But by no means so much as to be burdened by my age or regret that something I can not for this reason! I sing, I dance, I watch myself, I’m still a dashing driver, I went skiing last year and enjoy it a lot! What to regret? I don’t know about you, but every morning I wake up with gratitude!
Elena, by email
FEMALE WEAKNESSWhere did all these platitudes about a little girl and a strong shoulder come from? Where does the womanish desire to pile his problems upon Him, and spread the semolina on the asphalt itself?
If you want a baby - give birth, feed, educate. You satisfied your maternal instinct. This is your desire for a holiday - so arrange quiet romantic evenings by candlelight and noisy parties with a bunch of him or your friends. Gone - fly, dove, he has already taken as much as he could carry, and you will make the other happy, look at that: bored, wilted, lost interest in life. You are a Muse, only you can inspire for feats. And do not stoop to the squabbles and squabbles, it does not suit you - you are the Goddess! And stop raising a son - deal with your life, and he’s already big, let him collect his own cones, grow up, otherwise he will be another infantile peasant more.
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